Sunday, February 02, 2014

Oppressed? Not By God.

This week in Relief Society (the women's group of our church) we had a lesson on the importance of women in the church and the place we hold in Christ’s gospel.  As the world gets to know members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints / Mormons, a common concern that is often raised is that we as women are less then the men because we don’t hold the Priesthood.  For an outsider looking in it’s a question I think that is a natural one to ask. 

In our church a woman will never baptize someone, be a bishop (head of a congregation), an apostle, or the prophet.  We will never be able to heal the sick with the laying on of hands or bless and pass the sacrament.  The mistake many make is that just because women may not seem to hold higher “status” in the church that we are somewhat repressed, deprived, and looked down on to be not as important as the men.  I often find this ironic since I have never felt oppressed in anyway because I was a woman.  I think it has to do with the fact that I understand and see things from a different perspective then someone from the outside looking in.

The difference between the world and God is that the world puts importance and status on almost the exact opposite of what God does.  The world is worried about body image and physical perfection, God is worried about our hearts and if they are filled with charity and love.  The world thinks true happiness comes in fancy clothes, beautiful houses, and the latest gadget, while God knows that happiness comes from losing one’s self in other people and not being concerned with “frivolous things”.  In regards to the church, the world sees importance and status in positions of leadership which are filled only by men, while God knows that to enter His kingdom and obtain His blessings one needs to have no position of significance in His church but only a willing heart and the desire to serve Him with all one has.  His highest and greatest blessings are available to all regardless of position or gender.  Therefore, a woman serving in the nursery is entitled to all the same blessings in God’s kingdom that her bishop is if both were found to be equal in their dedication to the gospel.  Their position is a non-factor.  Their gospel devotion is everything!!

While gospel devotion really is the only thing that matters, it is important to note that women do hold high positions within the church and are sought after and asked for their input, insight, and direction on matters within the church.  Their roles are no less significant then the men – just different, which brings me to another important difference between the world and God.  The world marks equality as being EXACTLY the same, God marks equality as fulfilling one’s role in the way He intended it to be and has blessed us to be able to do based on divine characteristics inherent to our gender.  God made men and women different on purpose, both physically and emotionally, but He still values each of us as equally deserving of his love and desire for us to return to Him.

And so, if God almost always puts an emphasis on the opposite of what the world does, and if He in no way suppresses or thinks less of women, then I would argue that if women want to see where they are truly oppressed, they need look no further then the magazine covers in the grocery store or to the latest television show where their value is reduced to the flawlessness of their skin or the size of their waist instead of the brilliance of their mind, the love in their heart, and their devotion to the will of God.


For a great perspective of how women are viewed in The Church of Jesus Christ of latter-day Saints please watch this video:







*Please note that I am not an official spokesman for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and all opinions are mine.  
For official releases on church doctrine please go HERE and HERE.


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1 comment:

emily said...

Great stuff, Megan, thanks for sharing. The world is extremely messed up in their view of womanhood. It is not making us more like men. It is valuing us and what makes us woman. I wish more people understood. :)